The Transformation

It's funny that you don't notice the changes of your child to an adult -- it's like all of a sudden you look at them and they've changed.

This week after experiencing much heartache, Aaron (the youngest) and I have bonded like never before. This week he demonstrated his compassion towards others, his "stepping up to the plate" when it was needed, and his tremendous love and sadness for Leslie.

We've hugged, we've cried, we've laughed, we've talked, and most importantly we have both learned how important it is to live your life to the fullest because there are no guarantees.

Thank you Aaron for showing me your romantic side when you talked about how your first kiss with Leslie was in Lake Charles on the riverboat deck. That truly melted my heart. Thank you Aaron for showing me how to be a man and shake hands with Leslie's father and pass your condolences when they hadn't hardly acknowledged you or your love for their daugher. That truly made me proud. And thank you Aaron for showing me your love and sharing the love you have for Mason and Leslie. I know it's been a very difficult week for you, but you've handled yourself with dignity, respect, and compassion and those are magnificent qualities for a good man.

I love you more than you know......thanks for helping me get through this with you.