It's Valentines Day. The day that the card, chocolate, and flower companies created to get you to buy someone a gift.
I believe that you should show your love everyday of the year and not just on February 14th. My husband is very non-traditional. I know that I will not get flowers today. We have a standing deal that I get flowers twice a year, not on the traditional "flower" days, but on two days that I would never expect during the year.
So in celebration of this faux holiday.....I will share those special qualities about my husband that I really love. Some of these you may or may not know about him, but they are the qualities that make him uniquely himself!

1. His sense of humor. It's a little off-track from most of the population, but every once in awhile he is really hilarious. I don't think people really understand he just really has a dry sense of humor.

2. His honesty. He is an incredibly honest person. He would never intentionally steal, lie, or do anything that is not above-board and honest. Sometimes I would like to "fudge" on something -- but he won't. They say that "what goes around comes around" and this man truly is going to be on the "good" end of receiving.
3. His brains. He really is a smart cookie. He knows so much weird and boring stuff that I never even really wanted to learn. I don't even have to solve manual math problems any more - I just tell him and he'll solve it for me. He really is a great team mate to have in trivia competitions.

4. His creativity. This man can take ANYTHING and make it work. I'm talking about a King McGyver here. (Remember the show where that guy could get out of any situation with a piece of string and some tape?). My husband has the uncanny ability to see something totally useless and find a purpose for it somewhere.
5. His care and his compassion. There is not one single day where he doesn't make me feel special and loved. He treats me like a queen and would go to the end of the world and back to do something to make me happy. Not many people get to see this "private" side of him, but he really is a caring and compassionate person.

6. His love and his loyalty for our business. He will do ANYTHING to make sure that our customers are well served. He works long hours, he runs around every single day to make sure that we are stocked up on supplies and will never have a situation where a customer orders something and we are out of it. He forgoes his own time off to make sure that an employee gets time off for something that they want to do (grrrrrrr.....not sure I like this one).

7. His patience and understanding. He married me and accepted my kids as his responsibility and raised them and treated them like they were his own (until they got too big and he wanted to boot their butts out). He made sure that we had everything we needed, that we took fun vacations, and that we were always well taken care of -- even when it meant it had to work long and hard hours.

I am so incredibly lucky and blessed to have such a wonderful person to be married to. He is by no means perfect (he's a mess maker, he's ADHD, he forgets important crap all the time), but today is meant to celebrate our love and how special our relationship is. I can't believe that I found someone who is the "perfect" other half of me and enjoys the same things that I do!
I love you very much Paul Gainor!