I have recently begun to realize how quickly the years slip by and that we spend too much time looking ahead and that we don't slow down enough to reflect on what got us here. Too often we take the past for granted and don't take the time to say thank you to the people that helped shape who you are. Dad, I can't thank you enough for what you have taught me.
You convinced me (against my will) that kids need rules. Our household was stricter than some but we benefited from the structure.
You let me know (on several occasions) that my curfews were not flexible. To this day I call if I am going to be late, but more importantly, I try not to be late and get where I am supposed to on time.
You taught us not to be wasteful, to be honest, truthful, and to have a good work ethic. I am happy to report that I have lived up to those expectations.
And although we had a lot of rules that I highly objected to, I am most appreciative for the love and reasoning behind all of those rules. When I look at my siblings I see a family whose members are responsible, hardworking, and successful. Not many families can claim this -- but we were fortunate to have a leader who instilled these values into us.
Although I can't be with you on this particular birthday -- please remember that my heart, my spirit and my love are with you today. Thank you for being a great father to us all (even those adopted) and have a very happy birthday!
